Book/Printed Material Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ...
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Image 1 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 2 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... LIBRARY OF CONGRESS. BJ^Oi-i Shelf _._ L.l UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 3 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 4 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 5 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... GOOD FORM HOSPITALITY IN TOWN AND COUNTRY WITH USAGES, FORMAL AND INFORMAL irOW TO MAKE IT A PLEASURE TO ENTERTAINER AND ENTERTAINED By the Author of Weddings, Formal and Informal Cards, their...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 6 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... B .v^ Copyright, 1892, by FREDERICK A. STOKES COMPANY. Barr-Dinwiddie Printing Book-Binding Co., GREENVILUE, JERSEY CITY, H. i.- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 7 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TABLE OF CONTENTS. PAGE. THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY 5 TOWN VISITS 15 COUNTRY VISITS 26 INVITATIONS SENT AND ANSWERED... 33 RECEPTION OF GUESTS IN TOWN 38 RECEPTION OF GUESTS IN THE COUN-...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 8 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 9 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... GOOD FORM HOSPITALITY IN TOWN AND COUNTRY THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY. A PREMEDITATED hospitality in this country is an expression of fine civilization. At least it is meant to be. Animals, in...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 10 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 6 GOOD FORM. As a rule, an unconsidered, ceremonious hospitality is a doubtful virtue. By unconsidered is meant a hospitality for which the comforts and diversions of guests, also its consequences upon...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 11 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY. 7 more likely to fix their own dates for visiting, and suit their own convenience in the length of their stay than they were to consult the pleasure...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 12 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 8 GOOD FORM. baldest sense of that word, but he really lacked sonie- thing which might be only a variation in the monotony of his life, and he sought what he though:...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 13 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY, 9 her friends, and the most loving and lovable one in her own family. She is conscientious in the ex- penditure of her resources, also of her leisure,...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 14 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... lO GOOD FORM. guests, and allure these graces out for mutual pleasure at a social gathering, either in town or country. Plain persons may be most gifted. If they are not person-...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 15 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY. 1 1 If credulous, and not wholly blind to good parts that may have existed in secret in the least promising mem- ber of a happy house-party, they...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 16 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 12 GOOD FORM. session of those who are neither assuming nor presum- ing friendliness that is not intrusive modesty that is not morbid nor silly reclusiveness that is not exclu- siveness and...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 17 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... THE SOUL OF HOSPITALITY, 1 3 ing. Speech that is apt in time and tenor is akin to science. It heals wounded self-love, mends broken friendships, awakes the melody of jangled social...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 18 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 14 GOOD FORM. enmity toward another, he can find no easier recon- ciliation with him without the use of words, than by eating salt with him in his own house. Differences melt...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 19 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS. There was a time, and not long ago, in America, when city houses were esteemed the most alluring places for prolonged hospitalities. With English ex- amples, however, and larger capabilities...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 20 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 1 6 GOOD FORM, cal knowledge that may be acquired from authentic sources, a hostess who fills her house for several days with guests, hazards her own peace of mind, and also...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 21 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS, 17 seldom endures the prolonged strain of a house- party. Tact is an essential at every social gathering. It may be a talent, or it may be an acquirement, but...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 22 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 1 8 GOOD FORM, most pleasant affairs require many days in which to perfect them. When there are several guests, the host selects entertainments in which all may take part therefore, plans...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 23 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS, 19 or what is most interesting or most gratifying to their hosts, therefore it is bad form to insist upon anything. When guests have other friends or acquaintances resid- ing...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 24 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 20 GOOD FORM, more and more drifts astray from the spirit of a con- stitution that was established on a presumed human equality. Socially ambitious persons who have not reached a desired...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 25 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS, 21 and most kindly of men and women therefore it is that etiquette becomes a friendly protector that would, if it were strictly followed, save such as are in coveted...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 26 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 22 GOOD FORM, may not be clearly apparent to such as have limited or insular social experiences. When there is but one guest, or perhaps two or three, any lack of conformity...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 27 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS. 23 To propose attending prayers without at least an im- plied permission would be an intrusion. A request for invitation to such sacred services should never be made. It would...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 28 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 24 GOOD FORM. Their form of welcome is the same as that of very rich hosts, because certain matters, including friendship and its expressions, are always similar, but the luxury or lavi-shness...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 29 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... TOWN VISITS, 25 because they are sure it will be duly valued, and besides thus providing social gratifications for future guests of their own, they usually receive an immediate return in the...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 30 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... COUNTRY VISITS. The ideal place for entertaining large or small house-parties, or even single guests, is the country. Heaven and earth combine to rest the weary and to make idlers happy. Not...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 31 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... COUNTRY VISITS, 2^ tended visits in town, and doubtless this is due to the habits of men, who Hke clubs, and that freedom from an unfamiliar family routine which cannot be secured...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 32 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 28 GOOD FORM. ing-music, or showing skill at cards. No one should be without a gift to contribute to the pleasure of a party and every one is able to possess themselves...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 33 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... COUNTRY VISITS. 29 and spoil tempers, also dinners. They are never thoroughbreds, because these fine-fibred individuals consider the comfort and the desires of everybody. Of course, pardonable delays fall to the lot...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 34 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 30 GOOD FORM, tempers, entertainers take the responsibility of setting them right, and they do it, with a generous and prompt firmness that those who give house-parties should not be without. A...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 35 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... COUNTRY VISITS, 3 1 have learned the charm of repose and the value of anticipation, both of which cannot be underestimated. The young woman and young man who are most agreeable as...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 36 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 32 GOOD FORM. of a group of guests in a country house, he must con- ceal it even permit no one to suspect that he has it. If it is a sorrow...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 37 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... INVITATIONS SENT AND ANSWERED. In America, women are the leaders in hospitality, because we have very few men with sufficient leisure. Therefore it is women who write all the invitations for visits...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 38 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 34 GOOD FORM. is because dangers to health are forgotten by the young in inclement weather, and also the proprieties when frolicking is the motive for a house-parly. Good Form has adopted...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 39 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... IN VITA TIONS SENT AND ANSWERED. 3 5 It is no longer in good form to accept any invitation that is general, and has no definite date. Drop in at any time...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892
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Image 40 of Hospitality in town and country with usages, formal and informal ... 36 GOOD FORM. time for adjusting her plans, also in case of declination, to substitute other friends in the list. Proper respect for a proposed hospitality would con- pel promptness in replying,...- Contributor: [Longstreet, Abby Buchanan
- Date: 1892